I tried to make as you offered: not to treat it, as the juvenile child.
Also you know, it became much more obediently and more independently!
Strengthen a childlike faith in dream Learn, what treasured desires of your child, and give him support in their implementation.
Helping children to embody wished in reality, you accustom them to thought that dreams come true.
It gives them feeling of completeness of life.
If we refuse the dreams and hopes, life becomes sulfur and to some extent senseless.. . . . . . Read more -->
The tutor, as well as the artist, acts not according to the plan, not on abstract idea, not according to the set list of some qualities and not on a sample, and on an image.
At each of us even if we do not know about it, there lives in the head the image of the Ideal Child, and we is imperceptible for itself we try to bring our real child under this ideal image.
Whatever made whatever the kid told, we automatically compare his act and the word to image of the Child in the head and if meets that we praise the son if disperses we condemn.. . . . . . Read more -->
Justin told nothing but only smiled enough.
The next seven days we tried to behave so that Justin realized senselessness of the wrong purpose the of behavior, but he still continued to be angry.
Having snatched an opportunity when all of us sat in the evening round a fire, I asked it such question: Justin, advise, what to us to do when you start being angry?
He answered: I do not know.
Then I told: And as you will look at if all of us simply leave you far away not to become angry, listening to your heartrending cries.. . . . . . Read more -->
As it is regrettable, lack of mutual communication becomes an absolute obstacle in the relations between teenagers and adults sometimes.
During formation of the teenager of a door, conducting to mutual contact and communication, it is always necessary to hold open.
A lot of things depend here on our ability to be respectful to the child even when his outlooks on life disperse from ours.
Logical consequences it is alternative to traditional educational methods of encouragement and punishment.. . . . . . Read more -->
And the slightest mistrust even if it is not stated, spoils the relations.
The child suddenly becomes impudent, for no reason at all from our party.
What is the matter?
But the occasion was.
We thought of the child badly.
Once to me brought the boy seventhgrader that I talked to him.
It did not have relations with parents.
The boy as the boy, friendly, garrulous, he began me to tell about the everyday affairs, about school, about hobby for brands.. . . . . . Read more -->
Children of the head cannot hammer with religious mysticism.
The mysticism offers the child flight from reality and in a dangerous form.
All of us sometimes feel need to escape from reality, differently anybody would never read any novel, did not go to the cinema, did not toss of any glass of whisky.
But we run away with open eyes and we come back soon.
The mystic is inclined to live constantly in such separation from reality, investing all the libido in Theosophy, a spiritualizm, Catholicism or Judaism.. . . . . . Read more -->
Whether there are at the child strange habits and whims in food: for example, he refuses to drink from transparent vessels, eats only hot or only cold, eats only one or two dishes etc.
Yes x Does not go beyond norm I do not know Whether you noticed, what at the age of years the child often became reserved, went to the inner world so deeply, what it was impossible to reach it?
x Yes, absolutely right description Unless from time to time Incorrectly Age of years.
Whether your child is tender?. . . . . . Read more -->